Self-development: hypotheses and test results

A person wants to boost their self-confidence and become a more successful communicator in everyday life. Such a person feels they have blocks in group communication, they're shy about asserting themselves and talking. They want to overcome self-doubt, become a good conversationalist, and use speech and voice to achieve their goals. When a person has trouble communicating due to lack of confidence, they go and level up their public-speaking and communication skills to make communicating easier

A person wants to understand who they are, what their strengths are, and how best to develop. Such a person has run into the problem of searching for their purpose. They feel they're not fulfilling themselves the way they'd like. They don't like their job/studies, they have no hobbies, or their hobbies bring no joy.

PAIN — hard to talk to people. CONTEXT — people find it hard to talk to strangers and keep a conversation going. This shows up both at work and in everyday life. They feel tense and awkward talking to strangers. They avoid direct contact in every way possible. They don't know how to hold a conversation, what to talk about, how to talk about themselves. They want to learn to communicate and do it easily — find common topics, calmly approach new people, make connections. They want to boost their communication skills. We invite you to a focused masterclass "How to talk to strangers with ease."

They want to help others while also growing themselves. They're characterized by a rescuer syndrome, so they're drawn to psychology and various practices that raise awareness. They do this not so much for themselves as to help others — husband, children, relatives, loved ones. They constantly feel something is missing in their life — they're trying to find themselves.

A woman wants to find something that will drive and delight her. She wants to find a passion, a hobby, that will make her interesting and self-sufficient.

Pain - fear of the camera Context - to record a video they do up to 100 takes and something always bothers them: their voice, facial expressions, gestures. It's hard to hold a thought while recording video. They want to learn to record video quickly and easily, feel free in front of the camera, and express their thoughts clearly and interestingly. They want to like themselves on video and have others admire them too.

A person wants to overcome the fear of public speaking and feel comfortable in front of an audience. Such a person is preparing for an upcoming public speech and realizes they don't have the necessary skill. They struggle with preparation, overwhelmed by fear. They want to learn to feel comfortable in front of an audience and deliver their prepared material in an interesting/effective way.

When a woman wants to change her thoughts and habits, she studies neurobiology, to improve the quality of her life in every area and be happy with herself. Such a person is already aware of neurobiology, but can't start studying it on their own. They're looking for training to use for themselves and their own transformation.

PAIN — fear of public speaking CONTEXT — these people are afraid to speak. They need to speak. Their profession requires public speaking, but they avoid it out of fear. Thoughts get tangled, it's hard to put thoughts into spoken words. Any need to speak in front of strangers triggers panic: knees shake, the voice goes hoarse and trembles, thoughts get tangled. Because of this they feel like failures — they miss out on career-advancement opportunities, struggle to negotiate with partners, find it hard to run their social media. They want to learn to speak in public easily and brilliantly — without fear or a shaking voice and knees, to formulate their thoughts correctly and clearly, to quickly find the right words in unexpected situations, to improvise.

PAIN — doesn't like their own voice CONTEXT — They don't like their own voice. It shows up differently for everyone — some sound childish, some have a rough, hoarse voice. Because of this, the person feels discomfort: they're embarrassed, they try to stay silent, and if they do need to speak or hold a conversation, they do it tensely, rushing their words. They're afraid to speak in public — they feel ashamed, thinking everyone will laugh. They want to change their voice. Make it deeper, softer, more appealing. To like the timbre of their own sound.

A person wants to gain beautiful speech: clean, correct, without filler words. Such a person wants to speak correctly and get their thoughts across: no filler words, no mumbling.

A woman wants to become free and independent. Her husband and children absorbed all of her attention, and at some point she lost herself. Such a woman wants to step out of the shadow of her husband and children and start living her own full life.

There's interest in psychology, but no desire to dive into it at a professional level, and no interest in figuring it out alone either — the desire is to learn through practice, to learn from someone (to come in, have everything explained, work through it with someone, do an interesting exercise, get it decoded, and happily learn, discover, and build it into your life). Job to be done — get a community of like-minded people, study psychology for yourself, work with a psychologist, do psychological assignments and exercises and get individual feedback from the psychologist, work through cases from your own life, work on your mindset, get to know yourself, change for the better in order to improve your life. For those who enjoy communication.

Leveling up through voice work. They want to learn to control their voice, unlock their creative potential. Never considered professional singing lessons. Constantly working on self-development. They want to use singing to become more free, more vivid, and be able to consciously control their voice.

They want to break through their income ceiling, and understand that this takes more than just working harder — it takes leveling themselves up: managing emotions, making quick decisions, being self-confident. They want to reach financial well-being through personal growth.

No energy or desire to pursue their goals. Laziness gets in the way of reaching goals. It's hard to start doing anything, especially something new. They doubt themselves. They try to work on themselves but keep sliding back. Beliefs get in the way — you've spent your whole life building a system that keeps you from moving. You scold yourself for being lazy, when you just need to change the system's settings

They quickly run out of steam on the way to their goals. Not enough motivation and energy to move forward. They've tried different techniques, but nothing helps, or it only gives a temporary result. In the end they start something, some time passes, and they abandon what they started.

Subconscious blocks and beliefs that keep a person from being happy. They interfere with making the right decisions, hold back your career, make you look over your shoulder at others' opinions. Break down what beliefs are. An unusual tool for finding your beliefs. At the webinar you'll understand how to get rid of them. Pick up an algorithm for improving your life in 1 day.

For men who are searching for their purpose. Life has turned into a routine, there's no goal, nothing brings joy. It feels like treading water. They want to find a goal that will motivate and inspire them, fill their life with meaning.

Learn to fight. Preparation for a fight, be self-confident so you don't fear fighting. Be able to enter conflicts and stand up for yourself

Men are looking for a universal self-development path to level up their physical and mental state, with the goal of becoming a superhuman. Target image — masculinity.

For those who work in a creative field and want to train their brain to constantly produce new ideas. Creative people need to keep their brain in shape at all times so it produces new ideas, to "feed the muse" instead of waiting for it or for inspiration. Imaginative thinking kicks in, ideas start generating automatically in the background, and drawing builds the habit of thinking this way. A switch, working with the subconscious, a program is set, and then the result comes out as new ideas and concepts. Result through creative drawing, show how the mechanism works

An audience fixated on working on themselves. They constantly go through trainings, seminars, retreats. Their goal is to become the best version of themselves, get rid of the limiting beliefs that keep them from being truly happy. They want fulfillment, to feel confident in themselves. Women who keep leveling themselves up. They level up and level up, but don't become the best version of themselves. Something's wrong in my life, I'm falling short. Straight-A-student syndrome, perfectionist syndrome — they level themselves up but don't feel satisfied. How do I level myself up enough to be satisfied with myself. How do I tighten myself up enough to become perfect for myself. Offer — personal growth — the path of self-acceptance — how to feel — how to finally be satisfied with yourself.

They're constantly searching for themselves and their purpose. They don't know what they want in life. Pain — tried many different professions, but none felt right. They don't feel satisfaction from what they do. For women — how to live your life with meaning and pleasure. Understand what's yours, what you were born for. For men — is there a spiritual goal in your life, how consciously are you living — in the creative. + a simple method for determining your purpose.

Pain — afraid to act. Scared of making the wrong choice, so they live at half strength. They put up with a job they don't like. Relationships that destroy them. Scared to set their boundaries and assert themselves.

Men and women want to pursue self-development in a community of like-minded people, using Eastern practices and mind work. Target image — a new environment, new habits.

A person speaks in public often and wants to accompany their speech with high-quality visuals, be memorable, and easily get their ideas across.

A student wants to learn to create interesting presentations for school/research projects.

Beginner bloggers and experts want to stop fearing the camera so they can record video easily and quickly. To record a video they do up to 100 takes and something always bothers them: their voice, facial expressions, gestures. It's hard to hold a thought while recording video. They want to learn to record video quickly and easily, feel free in front of the camera, and express their thoughts clearly and interestingly. They want to like themselves on video and have others admire them too.

A person wants people to think of them as a charismatic and interesting personality. Such a person wants to stand out favorably in a group, be able to tell stories in an interesting way, and hold their listeners' attention. They want to develop charisma and learn to present themselves brilliantly, so they can use these skills in their personal life and work.

When I feel that my life situation needs to change, I want to develop an action plan for changing the current situation, So that I can move forward and achieve new goals and results. Context: not satisfied with life, want to change everything radically.

When I strive for personal development, I want to explore new skills and opportunities, So that I can unlock my potential and become the best version of myself. Context: I keep leveling myself up and learning in various ways, but I still don't feel grounded, I don't understand what I can aim for or where to develop

Life lacks meaning → find a goal, meaning, purpose → joy and satisfaction

When I feel that my life lacks meaning and purpose, I want to find a new goal and meaning in life and my purpose, So that I can feel joy and satisfaction from my actions and achievements again. Context: I feel unhappy, I want to become happy and live this life with meaning. I ask myself, what am I living for? What was I born for?

Desire to develop intellectual abilities while multitasking; loves scientific literature.

People with memory and attention problems; forgetfulness, low productivity.

A person is striving for personal growth and the development of intellectual abilities. They want to raise their intelligence, develop their intuition, and improve their analytical and decision-making abilities. They love scientific literature and want to learn more information

People with memory and attention problems often have trouble in everyday life and at work. These problems can show up as forgetfulness, an inability to focus on tasks, and low productivity. They want to improve their cognitive function and develop their memory and attention. This will help them handle their responsibilities more effectively and improve their quality of life.

A person experiences emptiness and dissatisfaction in their personal life, they want to find their purpose and gain inner peace

A person strives for a level of happiness and well-being in life, they want to develop strategies for raising their level of happiness

A person is looking for a mentor who will help them develop and find their purpose.

Interested in all kinds of self-development topics, they want to find something interesting to listen to with benefit.

A person is striving for personal growth and the development of intellectual abilities. They want to raise their intelligence, develop their intuition, and improve their analytical and decision-making abilities. They love scientific literature and want to learn more information

People with memory and attention problems often have trouble in everyday life and at work. These problems can show up as forgetfulness, an inability to focus on tasks, and low productivity. They want to improve their cognitive function and develop their memory and attention. This will help them handle their responsibilities more effectively and improve their quality of life.

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A person is lacking motivation and is looking for ways to inspire themselves to take action.

A woman wants to get advice on developing and achieving personal goals in a high social status environment. Context: Such women pursue primarily personal goals (making wealthy friends, meeting a man). They want to understand how to make connections, communicate, and achieve the desired result.

A woman is striving to get access to exclusive events. Context: The difficulties may stem from insufficient knowledge of the culture and etiquette of communicating with high society, lack of contacts, or lack of experience building connections with members of the elite.

A woman wants to understand the nature of the ultra-wealthy world and how to thrive in it. Context: Such women see a wealthy life on social media and dream of the same for themselves. They look for every way to get into the world of the wealthy and establish themselves there.

A woman wants to gain a vivid and interesting life. Context: Such a woman realizes her life is monotonous, boring, and gray. She may be experiencing burnout and apathy, which makes the situation even worse. She wants to change her life once and for all — make it vivid and full.

People who want to feel happy. To feel the taste of life and enjoy it. They don't feel happy. They don't have time to notice life. They don't want to just take part in some kind of race. They want to find happiness here and now. They want to start enjoying life.

People who want to set and achieve their goals. They don't know how to set goals. They know they should. They either set goals from time to time but don't follow through, and often drop off along the way. There are no tools, algorithms, or helpers. They want to learn to set goals and achieve them, so they can be satisfied with themselves

People who want to find their life's calling. They can't find their purpose. They don't know how to find the life's work that makes their eyes light up. As a result, they may work for years at a job they don't love and be unhappy because of it. They want to find their life's calling, so they can be happy.

People who suffer from a lack of energy and strength. They have little energy to achieve goals and move forward. Or it runs out quickly. They also don't have enough strength to get everything done that they planned. They understand that energy is the key to success at work, in their career, and in their personal life. They want to take their energy to a new level, so they can succeed at everything. So they have enough strength to accomplish what they set out to do.

People who lack motivation in life. Motivation to do anything disappears from time to time, or it doesn't last long. There's no reason to get out of bed in the morning. They need a helper, someone to give them guidance. They want to sort out their motivation and find what drives them in life.

People who want to live a vivid and memorable life. They don't want to just live a plain, gray life. They're afraid they'll miss out on life. They want to enjoy life, not just exist. They understand all of this, but can't yet get a grip on themselves. But they're ready to change. They want to live a vivid life, realize their vision, pursue their dreams, and fulfill their wants.

A young woman/woman wants to start living a vivid, fulfilling life, without depending on family, husband, children Context: Such a person has realized she's not living life to the fullest. All her thoughts are focused on her husband, children, household chores. She wants to start living for herself and fulfilling her potential.

Young women/women want to stop being afraid and start doing what they love Context: Such people want to develop in a creative direction or start their own business, but fear stops them. They're afraid there won't be a result, that it won't work out, that they'll be judged.

When a person feels like they're living someone else's life, when every day is Groundhog Day, with no joy and no resources for living, they look for ways out of the vicious cycle

When a person isn't heard by their family, their children don't listen to them, and at work colleagues don't take them seriously, that person wants to become visible and heard by those around them, and to influence what happens around them

When a person has problems and stress — a wife left, lost a job, urgently needs money, etc. — they urgently need tools to solve the issue, i.e. a technology for making wishes come true - when a person has a goal, they need technologies for achieving the desired result in a clean, sustainable way

Fear of fighting — preparing for life

Superhuman, philosophy

A student wants to learn to create interesting presentations for their academic/research projects. Context: Such students want to learn to create interesting and beautiful presentations for academic, scientific, and project work.

Many people feel stuck in negative emotions and circumstances, which gets in the way of their happiness. Work home work home, with no room for interesting events and meetings, daily routine brings no happiness or emotions. Happiness seems unattainable or "not for me", there's a daily fatigue and dissatisfaction with life. The person doesn't see a way out of their situation

Feels that there's potential inside for more and understands that this requires leveling themselves up — managing emotions, making quick decisions, being self-confident

A person strives for a level of happiness and well-being in life, they want to develop strategies for raising their level of happiness.

When I feel emptiness and dissatisfaction in my personal life, I want to get support and direction in the search for meaning and joy, So that I can find my purpose, experience satisfaction with life, and gain inner peace.

A person wants to find their calling/purpose Context: Such a person feels they're not living their own life: not the right job, not the right people around them, not the right hobby... They want to understand exactly what their purpose is, find their strengths and predispositions, and along with that find a happy life.

A person wants to get rid of their fears and finally start doing what they've long been putting off. Context: Such a person lives with the thought that it's time to change something. They even have a plan, a dream. But fears of change, fears about the future keep them from bringing it to life. All of this is oppressive and keeps them from enjoying life.

A person wants to find happiness. Context: Such a person feels that life is becoming gray and unenjoyable. They don't feel happy, and so they want to fix the situation.

When I want to move, change jobs, launch a project — but I'm afraid I can't handle it, I want to get help finding my inner footing and clarity, so that I stop holding back my own potential.

When I want to understand my desires, I want to see other people's experience and ask myself questions.

When I don't have a stable schedule, I want to study at my own pace, so I don't fall behind in the course.

When I don't absorb material well in a group, and I'm shy about speaking in front of others, I want to study individually, I want one-on-one practice, so the teacher is with me alone and I can build confidence calmly.

When I have an exam in 2 months, I want to go through the whole format, refresh my knowledge and close the gaps. So that nothing catches me by surprise.

Find a mentor who's a kindred spirit, close in meaning

Women want to earn a significant place in the team — to stand up for themselves, take charge in conflicts, win arguments and hold their own in front of management. They're aiming for a promotion and to become leaders at work. They work in a competitive environment, at a company where you can achieve a lot by knowing how to assert yourself — sales, realtors, international corporations, PR

They want to become leaders in life. They level themselves up, striving to earn more. They race up the career ladder. They want to become the best — leaders in their field. They lack the tools that would help them be more effective, get more done, and reach their goals in a short time.